Weekly Giveaway (10/05)

"Find out how much God has given you and from it take what you need; the remainder is needed by others." - St. Augustine

Because I've built up a large collection of extra books and resources, every week I give away some absolutely free, no strings attached.

Each giveaway lasts seven days with a new one beginning each Friday, and you can enter any time during the week. Check out the past giveaways items here.


 

This week we talked a lot about the New Evangelization. There was Fr. Barron's YouTube video on the "7 Great Qualities of a New Evangelist," my own talk on "The New Evangelist," and an interview with Dr. Ralph Martin, expert on the New Evangelization. In addition to those events, this Sunday kicks off the long-awaited Synod on the New Evangelization in Rome.

So in line with that focus, this week's giveaway features two books to help you become a more effective evangelist.

The first is Mark Brumley's How Not to Share Your Faith: The Seven Deadly Sins of Apologetics and Evangelization (Catholic Answers, paperback, 124 pages.) Mark is the CEO of Ignatius Press and a well-respected apologist who is a regular guest on Catholic Answers Live. His book is an excellent field guide on avoiding the traps which threaten all people sharing their faith. Here's the summary from Amazon:

"Not long after converting to the Catholic faith, noted author and apologist Mark Brumley found himself in a discussion with a Protestant friend. Secure in his newfound faith—and feeling somewhat superior to his "less-enlightened" friend—Brumley smugly said, "Yes, I, too, used to think as you do." It was an outburst of pride that undermined Brumley's arguments for the faith and likely drove his friend further away from the truth. Brumley had just committed one of the seven "sins" he describes in his remarkable book, How Not to Share Your Faith: The Seven Deadly Sins of Catholic Apologetics and Evangelization.
 
In the book, Brumley describes seven of the most common and tragic mistakes he and other apologists have made over the years in their attempts to defend and explain the Catholic faith. More importantly, he reveals how you can avoid these mistakes and become far more effective at sharing your faith in a charitable way. Brumley's book isn't only about how to argue more effectively or how to make your points more clearly. It's about finding the most effective way to share your faith—even if that means losing an argument from time to time."

 
The second giveaway book is co-authored by Dr. Peter Kreeft and Fr. Ron Tacelli, two sharp philosophy professors at Boston College. The Pocket Handbook of Christian Apologetics (Intervarsity Press, paperback, 142 pages) is a slimmer, pocket-sized version of their must-read Handbook of Christian Apologetics. Here's the description from Amazon:

"'Be ready to give a reason for the hope that is in you,' wrote the apostle Peter. That is what apologetics is all about. Here is a concise, informative guide for anyone looking for answers to questions of faith and reason. Peter Kreeft and Ronald K. Tacelli have condensed their popular Handbook of Christian Apologetics, summarizing the foremost arguments for major Christian teachings and offering compelling responses to the most common arguments put forward against Christianity.

In this book you'll find answers to questions about:

  • faith and reason
  • the existence of God
  • creation and evolution
  • predestination and free will
  • miracles
  • the problem of evil
  • Christ and the resurrection
  • the reliability of the Bible
  • life after death
  • heaven and hell
  • salvation and other religions
  • objective truth

The Pocket Handbook of Christian Apologetics is the place to begin for people with questions about Christianity."

 

 
In order to win this week's giveaway, leave a comment below answering this question:

What do you find most difficult about sharing your faith?

 


The winner will be randomly selected next Friday and the giveaway item will be sent out, free-of-charge, shortly thereafter.

UPDATE:

The drawing is now closed. Congratulations to Heather T. for winning this week! Check your e-mail for instructions on receiving the book. If you don’t see an e-mail from me, check your spam box—apparently e-mails with “giveaway” in the title are prone to end up there.

In the future I'll be giving away more books and resources, sometimes multiple items per giveaway! So subscribe via feed reader or email to ensure you never miss your chance to win.

 
  • Jclem413

    Just starting the conversation is probably the hardest part. Helps to be prayerful before evangelizing.

  • Ironiccatholic

    What is hardest is when I know someone will push back hard, but they are asking me to share anyway. Hard to be vulnerable.

  • Tim Canny

    Finding opportunities that are appropriate and people who are willing to talk about their beliefs. The last time was when some JWs came to the door and we were able to have an intelligent exchange. They said they would come back with answers from their pastor to some of my questions about their interpretation of the Bible but they never did. :[

  • Christina Poynter

    I've always been a pretty weak person and frankly I'm just not courageous enough. I'm afraid of ruffling feathers, and also have always been convinced I'm pretty bad at debate (although, I suppose there's no reason to need to be good at debate to spread God's word).

  • Ray

    Sharing your Faith online is difficult. Sometimes people change your words and take what you write out of context. Your tone doesn't always get across on a Facebook post. I've stepped in and out of mud plenty of times posting on Facebook, and replying on comment after comment. Sharing The Faith online is difficult but becoming necessary in today's world.

  • http://twitter.com/pdrinks Paul Drinks

    Lacking the zeal for souls & being too concerned about what others will think.

  • ce58

    It's hard for me to get the conversation going, and then on top of that feeling vulnerable, sharing something so deeply important in my life, to someone I often barely know.

  • http://www.facebook.com/plallex Preston Allex

    The Faith is easy to share when one is willing to take the time to learn and pray about our doctrines. I find a much more successful dialogue when sharing the impact that Christ has made and allowing them to ask questions about my Faith. There is no argument that cannot be won with the 2,000 years of Tradition, and lack of confidence in the Church's Wisdom is not what is difficult for me. If there is ever a question posed that I cannot answer from memory, I can humbly request time to look it up and reply to their statement (which I have always been able to do).

    The most difficult part of sharing the Faith, for me, is the indifference shown by others in spite of them conceding to points or them enjoying a particular conversion story. I fear that I have not approached the subject with enough compassion, respect, kindness, or most importantly, prayer. I fear that I have failed our Lord in my pursuit of sharing the truth about His infinite goodness.

  • Grace Hincapie

    The hardest thing is making sure you know your faith in order to evangelize.

  • Charley

    Trying to evangelize quickly. If I have more time to speak with the person, I feel I can be much more charitable. But if the person makes a quick, off-the-cuff comment and I want to respond with an explanation of the faith or of the Church, I can come across as either combative or too flippant. I guess I always want to say the perfect thing to start that person on the journey. As if I'm in control :) .

  • Mark Sandoval

    I think the hardest part for me when dealing with Protestant brothers and sisters is getting the conversation to the point where we can actually discuss why being Catholic actually matters. Most of them that I talk to feel absolutely no need to consider leaving where they are comfortable at. It seems as if they have stopped seeking more truth once they get comfortable with the bible and there particular denomination. Historical Christianity never comes into the equation.

  • http://twitter.com/StuartsStudy Stuart

    The hardest part about sharing my faith is finding the words to say without coming off judgy or preachy.

    -Stuart
    http://stuartsstudy.blogspot.com
    A Catholic and Orthodox Book Review blog

  • Flowers3

    Trying to not show irritation and get fired up when they oppose the church's teachings! Very hard to do, especially right now.

  • http://www.facebook.com/enmcowboy Christopher Baca

    I find it hard when the other person keeps interrupting and tries to prove me wrong. It is hard to blow up and get angry at them. But some people ask for your opinion just to see you get upset.

    • Enrico Contolini

      I feel exactly the same way. They may not even interrupt and wait till you are done, but they try to prove me wrong

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Robert-Kraus/100000177360746 Robert Kraus

    It's hard for me because I get nervous when the social hot-button issues come up...I'm comfortable on the theology, but as soon as birth control, SSM, etc, come up, especially if the other person is animated, I get unsure easily...

  • Eberie371

    Being afraid that I'll say something that is in error!

  • http://www.callherhappy.com/ Jenna @ Call Her Happy

    Starting the conversation. I tried it last night, and while the person wasn't mad, I don't feel like I made a difference :( But, God calls us to do what His will is, and it must have helped somewhat if He asked me to do it!

  • Rosary Maker

    I think trying not to overshare information. I have had to learn to answer the question which is asked and follow up the next day and ask was there anything else they wanted to discuss. If I overshare information then I sometimes close my door to restart the conversation again because the person is too overwhelmed.

  • http://twitter.com/richardferris richardferris

    I think starting the conversation can be the hardest. How do you transition a conversation from the weather or what is happening in politics/sports to 'so how is your life of faith and spirituality?' I may have a lot of information and answers via apologetics - but getting that into the stream of conversation is sometimes the hardest.

  • LizEst

    What's difficult for me is that, although I have a background in lay ministry and things liturgical, I have no apologetics training. Explaining the faith and answering questions on line has helped that. But, what would really be of assistance would be one of those apologetics books you are giving away! Thanks for this opportunity ;) God bless you, Brandon.

  • Jacki

    The hardest thing for me is figuring out how to approach and have a fruitful discussion with those whose minds and hearts are closed and/or hostile to religion.

  • Sue from Buffalo

    The hardest part is starting.

  • Joshcanning

    The most difficult part about sharing my faith is trying to do so with family members. They have seen my anti-witness, which makes it harder to feel comfortable giving my witness.

  • Adam Slide

    I think the most difficult part (in person at least) is finding people who are interested in discussing the topic and then working it into the conversation.

  • Stroke3Times

    The most difficult part of evangelizing is listening to what the other person is saying. Somewhere, there is a reason they believe what they believe and will not want to believe what you believe. You have to find the magic words that explain the truth to them.

  • Robert LeBlanc

    Fear of rejection.

  • Campms

    The hardest thing is to make sure my the living of my life matches the Gospel I am trying to present.

  • Heather Turner

    Getting defensive with the person I'm talking to.

  • Lloyd Duhon

    Explaining clearly to those who are eager to learn the faith but lack formation. It is always a challenge o discover the gaps in their formation to help them understand Church teachings.

  • Ronmoffat

    Being Catholic these days is viewed as being so far out of the mainstream that I usually feel that it's hard to make faith seem relevant to the person I'm talking to. I just find it hard to speak in terms people might understand these days.

  • Paty DeS

    I was just thinking about this question the other day! For me the most difficult thing about sharing my faith has to do with just getting starting. I love my religion so much for all the wonderful things it offers and gives us and as a result I have a hard time engaging into a conversation where I don't even know where to begin. Part of me I think is also worried about doing an inadequate job in representing Christ and His wonderful church. You would think it might be the opposite, but in reality for me I don't even know where to start sometimes. I think i have to trust more that God will take care of the rest and I should just focus on being a vessel of His love. :)

  • Katy

    Hardest part for me is when the person I am talking about knows more about Scripture than I do.

  • Tom Merkel

    It is hard mainly because sometimes I am a coward. I am afraid of people getting mad at me when I say I am against abortion or gay marriage. I am also afraid that after they find out I am a Catholic they will hold me to a higher standard and when they see me fall it will give them a reason not to come into the church

  • Adlerd

    Fear that I cannot defend it properly. The people at work that talk religion are strong Baptists or other faiths that know the bible front and back and just the right questions to ask (why are your 10 commandments different, it doesn't say that anywhere in the bible....and so on) While I'm searching for the correct answers I still have a ways to go and I don't think I present the answer very well when I do have it, nor am I adequately prepared for their come backs to my response. I seem to be taking the coward path and keeping my mouth shut more often.

  • Pildoogs

    I think the hardest part is just starting the conversation. Wondering if they will think you are totally crazy.

  • JamesLarsen

    I would have to say the vulnerability of the situation. Opening myself to share something so precious and then being put on the spot if I am unable to answer a question properly. It is really hard to put oneself in this scenario, and the chance that you can't honestly or properly answer a rebuttal can cause things to spiral out of control or you completely lose a possible connection. This is especially difficult with teens because they want an answer now due to the way our society has given us this gift/curse of instant gratification.

  • Juanbrueda

    being charitative and at the same time help the other person discover the true of Jesus

  • Pete Socks

    I find the most difficult aspect of sharing the Catholic faith is explaining the Eucharist. No matter how many well grounded scriptural references you give.....it always seems to end with being called blasphemous.

  • Vernon

    The courage to do so, and then sharing with charity and humility when I do.

  • Friarpark

    The hardest thing is getting past people's preconceptions of what being a Catholic entails. I've had people tell me that they want to tell me why I'm wrong yet they don't know how the books of the Bible came to be IN the Bible (I overheard one such person tell another that he never knew how the Bible was put together until our talk). And of course it's had not to get upset when people will not consider your points. So I just try to leave nuggets, or just nudge people towards a position where they at least do not think us Catholics are heathens. Of course, some of the hardest things for me to face are Catholics who do not go along with Catholic teaching, some of them on the worship committees. Sometimes I feel so alone in my parish.

  • http://www.facebook.com/Duc.in.Altum Christi Edwards

    Pre-election time is very difficult to share your faith because it is also mixed in with politics. Especially sharing with another Catholic the non-negotiable voting issues and they act like these aren't that important.

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